I've been playing only for a few hours and have already seen people trying to mob steal, refusing to invite you to groups which aren't even full to get named mobs, ignoring you when you are in trouble/refusing to help out against multiple mobs.... one of these was a lvl43 Paladin in Fargodeep Mine who could clearly see i'd run into too many mobs and instead of helping they just plod on past.
Is it just on this server that the player-base have become complete gits?