look i have no clue why it worked but it did.
I deleted WTF config three times didn't work then i read the wtf config itself and it was trying to log on to blizz servers so i changed the realmlist file i see on my wow files to up top and i started the game bam worked.
for some reason the config was using the realmlist file...now the realmlist.wtf file i can't see so i had to make it on the desktop then move to the folder.
No, the one you created on your desktop is saved as realmlist.wtf which is a hidden file the one visible in your WoW files is just a file but also needs to be updated so yes you have two in there but one is visible the other is not
Step 1: open notepad on your desktop type in said file set realmlist logon.elysium-project.org
Step 2: save that file as realmlist.wtf
Step 3: click and drag that file to your WoW files
Step 4: there is another realmlist notepad file visible in the files of WoW open that and type set realmlist logon.elysium-project.org hit save
Step 5: start game
Step 6: thank me