You should really do a long introspection on yourself and become aware of your behavior and attitude. I kind of remember you from Feenix and even tho many years passed you still do not realize that most of the conflicts you are noticing are the creations of your own distorted psyche.
There is nothing inappropriate in Thari's response.
And to be 'on topic': Advertise it, sign the server on the 'gaming top private servers' websites (without a vote points shop), because the mere fact of having a banner there does not hurt, but on the contrary. Back to the 'old ways', there's no need for fancy videos of the server since most of the players in Classic World of Warcraft are grown ups now.