Justme 9 Report post Posted March 30, 2017 I'm a 21 year old male who just got his own apartment and has a good paying job. I'm very mature and responsible for my age. Lately, I've been a little lonely and decided I needed someone in my life for me to love. Well, I found him. I met him while doing some volunteer work at the local shelter. He is a very cute golden retriever who is playful and well behaved but he is 12 years old and I'm afraid he is pretty old. I'm afraid if I adopt him he won't have a very long life with me and I will be heartbroken. What should I do? I love him so much, and have grown very fond of him but since he is 12, should I pursue things with him or keep looking? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Grette 0 Report post Posted March 30, 2017 The shorter time together can wear on the heart, but the memories and knowing you made his last few years ones with love might be a little bit of a comfort for you when it's time to say goodbye. I've had to let 4 different animals go over the last year due to age related illness, and it's tough, but the memories I have are priceless. I don't regret the pain of missing them because it comes from love. It isn't easy, but I believe it is worth it. However this turns out, I'm glad that you two have met each other and at least have that together. Good luck 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
smokeit 26 Report post Posted March 30, 2017 Take that doggo 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Muldreg 3 Report post Posted March 30, 2017 You should definitely adopt him and make sure his last years are the best of his life. :) 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
csant 3 Report post Posted March 30, 2017 Take the dog and post pics... =) 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Yarra 0 Report post Posted March 30, 2017 I wouldn't start my first dog experience with a dog that will die in a short matter of time. Let a veteran dog owner adopt that dog. Get a dog young like you so you can grow up together, if you're lucky you'll have him till your 30's. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
OhpElysium 3 Report post Posted April 19, 2017 Senior dogs need love and homes as well. Celebrate the time you do have together because that's what matters. When they pass celebrate the memories you made. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ourk 5 Report post Posted April 20, 2017 In a relationship, what matters is intensity, not duration. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kazuma 11 Report post Posted April 22, 2017 Take it, give him the best time of hes life remaining :) 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ulric 1 Report post Posted June 29, 2017 Literally no one here got the joke? lol 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Madmage 0 Report post Posted July 2, 2017 I think they all feed the troll 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hugo790 0 Report post Posted July 5, 2017 At first read i said to myself "You pedophile" then you troll... At any case that this is true however, Adopt the doggy and make his last yeards great + also post pictures 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ragingducks 9 Report post Posted July 5, 2017 You start with "I LOVE HIM SO MUCH" but then ask if you should take it. It's not love if you're asking that question. Either that or you're incredibly selfish. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
flowqz 34 Report post Posted July 6, 2017 aint no love if u gotta ask. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Alaire 0 Report post Posted August 8, 2017 Nothing in this world is as loyal and as loving as a dog. Take good care of him! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Marcelo20XX 1 Report post Posted September 4, 2017 Make it with the dog and please post pics... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Pipi 1 Report post Posted September 8, 2017 dont be so selfish and take him until he dies... or do you really want your ego to block the love with the dog ? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kick1234567890 0 Report post Posted September 9, 2017 Hey man, age is just a number, so what if society tells you it's wrong? you go to town on that boy all night whenever you can! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
b-bitslayer 0 Report post Posted October 14, 2017 have you even met a puppy? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lorthiras 7 Report post Posted October 14, 2017 Rise my creation. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Moonspeak 0 Report post Posted October 14, 2017 Ok this was pretty funny actually ^^ If it's true, take him ! Old dogs are the best. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites